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When Florida mom Kat Stickler picked up her 5-year-old daughter from school recently, she wasn’t prepared for the life update that came next. As they buckled in and began the familiar drive home, her daughter Mary Katherine—known affectionately as MK—spoke up from the backseat with confidence and joy:
“I’m going to marry him.”
Stickler, 30, shared the now-viral moment in an Instagram video that’s already reached over 15 million views. And while it might’ve seemed like a typical car ride, this one was unforgettable.
“This was the first time she had ever mentioned a crush at all,” Stickler told Newsweek. “I could honestly tell whatever she had to say was going to be hilarious and beautiful because she literally came out of school skipping with a huge smile on her face.”
The heart wants what it wants (especially at five)
When asked how she was so sure, MK replied with unwavering certainty:
“No, never. I’m not [marrying anyone else].”
And while MK was quick to clarify that he’s not technically her boyfriend (“He’s still, he’s like, five”), she made one thing crystal clear:
“I love his heart.”
Cue all of our hearts melting.
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A little girl with big feelings and a whole lot of confidence
MK then shared what made this classmate so special:
“He told me I’m so beautiful and I’m so funny.”
And, in true five-year-old fashion, she had a very practical next step—she wanted her mom to be friends with his mom so they could have playdates.
We’re not crying. You’re crying.
Letting her lead the conversation with love (and laughs)
Stickler’s favorite part? How excited her daughter was to share it all. “I want her to always feel like she can tell me absolutely anything and everything,” she told Newsweek.
And that’s the true heart of this moment. Not just a story about a sweet childhood crush—but a reminder of the kind of safe, open connection we all hope to build with our kids.
A parenting win in the comments section
Stickler’s approach sparked praise across social media. Parents loved how she gently asked questions like whether the boy had said MK was smart, and how she didn’t brush off her daughter’s feelings as “just a phase.”
“‘Be friends with his mom’ LOLLLL this girl is smart,” said @themindfulblonde.
“Okay but like her confidence is everything,” added @thechristylopez.
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Fast forward to the playdate—it’s happening
Turns out, MK’s plan is already in motion. Stickler said, “We actually bumped into each other last week at school drop off and were cracking up at the two of them, so the friendship is already blossoming.”
And the best part? Now Stickler and MK have a story of their own to laugh about for years to come—just like Stickler remembers her own first crush.
“I remember when I told my mom about my first crush… and over 20 years later my mom and I still laugh about how much I loved [him],” she told Newsweek.
Because some moments are just too pure not to remember forever.